Sunday, February 08, 2015

Whatever Happen to love ?


     Why People divorce 
Seems like everyone I know has gotten divorced..What ever happened                                                      to fifty year anniversary plates       
                         Marriage & Divorce
We are living in an "all about me","instant gratification","excuse making" society compared with past times.Have you ever listened to the reasons people give for getting married?I have heard other women say,"He can be a real jerk and he has cheated on me,but he makes good money",I have heard,"If something doesn't work out,we will just get a divorce".I don't think people take marriage seriously anymore.And what happened to the roles that men and women have in marriages?Now they are all askew ! I think that there is something to be said about traditional roles in marriage-there was a better balance and better support system within the household.
AND now we have shrinks giving everyone labels of dysfunctional "syndromes"and honestly,people use EVERYTHING as an excuse.You see many people blaming their parents or their self esteem or their inability to pay attention and using those things as a crutch instead of going forward and becoming proactive enough to fix small problems in relationships or their everyday life for that matter.30 years ago you didn't see a man shirking his responsibilities as a father because HIS father was an alcoholic.30 years ago you didn't see a woman sitting on her butt and eating little debbies all day while watching jersey shore,ignoring her husband and children and blaming it on the fact that they have attention deficit disorder.
But thats just my opinion.Sorry it was so long but I think people just are too lazy to try anymore. Its a sick world we liven now where sex is somfused for love people get just say hey look i married to split up and hook up thats right its gotten so bad most want even let there mate side of the bed get cold before moving some internet love of the week inn to the home , the onr thing we should work at we just put it out with the trash most think five years is a long time really
At least among this low as a people of this planet did another human being emotions doesn't even matter we have recycled relationships now they last a good 15 20 years and that's it not like our grandparents 50 60 70 years sickness and in health good times and bad today's generation when things start to turn to bad we just start over we don't try to fix it we don't attempt to fix it we just put a bandaid on it and move on and that's really sad because there's a lot of sleazy attorneys out there that's making millions on ppl miseries and our kids we're giving them all kinds of motional defects from splitting

 I most of us need more love in our lives sex is not bad 
Im telling all men make her feel like she the queen of your world and lick that pussy like a porn star and she will never leave you married people don't make time for a good time in the bedroom sex is good something you never lose in your marriage and love and respect the one you took vows with life is short work at it never give up marriage is for life so  Love, Respect, loyalty, Trust,Onisty, Truth...Remember know one person is perfect but you married them for a reason so you take the good with the bad and work at it ..
DID YOU TELL HER I LOVE YOU TODAY ..???????

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